Hi.I have a friend (I dont know if I can still call him that), and he have a really hot wife.About a month ago me and his wife had sex at my house,and now I don’t know how to look at my friends eyes…
What should I do…?
Shouldnt your friends wife be the one who feels horrible? Not that you are any better! Are you going to do it again and by that I mean are you open to the idea of doing it again or hoping to again?
The question is did you tell him?. If you told him than well it was a mistake but your an honorable guy that is willing to stand up to consequences.On the other hand if you are keeping it a secret than you shouldn’t bother looking him in the eyes because you don’t truly care about him in the first place so why every look in his eyes again.
ARE YOU GOING TO DO IT AGAIN???? and if you are even considering it your an asshole not a friend! in which case tell him the truth and you wont have to look him in the eyes!
Dude…. you have ruined your relationship with this guy forever. Whether you tell him or not you are pretty much screwed, either from guilt (if you don’t tell him), or from him going completely crazy on you (if you do tell him). Personally, I would tell him that you know that the friendship is over, I am a lousy friend, but your wife is a total whore and I thought you should know. Good luck, and think twice before screwing your friend’s wife if ever want to keep a friend.
People are so mean on here - we all make mistakes. But the thing is, you don’t want the lie to get out to your friend, but if you hang out with him there is that possibility that you may end up making the same mistake again. You can’t tell on her without telling on yourself, so if you choose to tell, be prepared to 1) lose a friend and 2) break up a marriage. They will have to deal with their problems on their own. Personally, I think she used you so that she could bring it up to her hubby the next time they got into a fight - so you may want to stay away from her. Women, well we can be a bit manipulative at times…
April 2nd, 2009 at 8:47 am
Shouldnt your friends wife be the one who feels horrible? Not that you are any better! Are you going to do it again and by that I mean are you open to the idea of doing it again or hoping to again?
April 2nd, 2009 at 12:12 pm
The question is did you tell him?. If you told him than well it was a mistake but your an honorable guy that is willing to stand up to consequences.On the other hand if you are keeping it a secret than you shouldn’t bother looking him in the eyes because you don’t truly care about him in the first place so why every look in his eyes again.
April 2nd, 2009 at 5:58 pm
ARE YOU GOING TO DO IT AGAIN???? and if you are even considering it your an asshole not a friend! in which case tell him the truth and you wont have to look him in the eyes!
April 6th, 2009 at 7:00 am
Dude…. you have ruined your relationship with this guy forever. Whether you tell him or not you are pretty much screwed, either from guilt (if you don’t tell him), or from him going completely crazy on you (if you do tell him). Personally, I would tell him that you know that the friendship is over, I am a lousy friend, but your wife is a total whore and I thought you should know. Good luck, and think twice before screwing your friend’s wife if ever want to keep a friend.
April 20th, 2009 at 7:41 pm
People are so mean on here - we all make mistakes. But the thing is, you don’t want the lie to get out to your friend, but if you hang out with him there is that possibility that you may end up making the same mistake again. You can’t tell on her without telling on yourself, so if you choose to tell, be prepared to 1) lose a friend and 2) break up a marriage. They will have to deal with their problems on their own. Personally, I think she used you so that she could bring it up to her hubby the next time they got into a fight - so you may want to stay away from her. Women, well we can be a bit manipulative at times…